Social HR Leadership and Cultural Clues

When I was in Louisiana recently I was fortunate to meet up with Nisha Raghavan, aka Your HR Buddy. Nisha kindly asked if I would be interviewed for her blog and I happily agreed. Her post, including the interview was published this week.

Despite the fact I look a lot like a convict who has just got out of bed (note to self, buy a hairbrush) – I wanted to share the video interview here, which Nisha describes as follows:

Doug talks about using social tools to create opportunities to collaborate and co-create things more innovatively at your workplace. He urges us to share our passion which is really an interesting way to connect with each other and inspire one another. He says ‘With the growing use of social tools we have a chance to re-humanize work and put people back at the heart of work, not the other way around. We can use transparency, systems thinking and even our vulnerability to create powerful places to work’.

In addition if you choose to listen, you’ll hear about my growing interest in art meets work, and my long held belief that we’re all of us capable of much more than we first believe. Experimentation is a vital ingredient in life. There’s also a reference to my New Year’s Evolution and a couple of other things too. The interview lasts sixteen minutes and fifty seven seconds so why not grab a coffee first, and I hope you will find something useful in here. Thanks again Nisha for the opportunity.

Miss You

I don’t think we ever get over the loss of someone close, it’s more like we just move further away from the moment. I find myself catching thoughts of Mum, often unexpected, always welcome – and she died back in 1984. I find these experiences a very lovely kind of sad, if you know what I mean?

Keira has been missing her Grandpa this week. It started at school on Tuesday when her class were asked to make up a story for the local newspaper. Like most kids, Keira doesn’t read the newspaper that often and the request took her mind back to the articles and obituaries that appeared locally when Dad died earlier this year.  Since then she’s had a few wobbly moments and has also decided to make her story about Grandpa, which I think is a neat idea.

I appreciate Keira’s vulnerability as a part of what makes her the complete person Carole and I love so much. Whether we know that vulnerability through the death of someone close or some other reason, we all have it, and I think we’re better for acknowledging it.

A Little Vulnerability Goes A Long Way

Summer camp is drawing near, and as is tradition I will be opening the entertainment on Friday evening. I’ve just found out the theme for 2012 is disco, did I ever tell you how much I hate disco? My spare moments are currently cluttered with The Bee Gees, Abba, and if that wasn’t enough, The Village People! I’m sorely tempted to squeeze in Disco Man by The Damned and Disco 2000 by Pulp just to try and hang on to my sanity.

Over the years I’m slowly learning to enjoy these performances, primarily because I’m learning to love the vulnerability that comes with putting yourself out there. I feel the same way about my ongoing art and painting project, and though I cringe a little every time I push the ‘publish button’ on a new piece of work, I’m equally stimulated because my learning is evolving.

Sten guns in Knightsbridge

In the world of work, I’m noticing it is slowly becoming OK to talk more about, and express vulnerability. It’s a hugely powerful way to demonstrate leadership and show, through demonstrating your own vulnerability, that it can be OK to make, and admit to, mistakes. Mistakes that we all can learn from. Too often I speak with Chief Execs and others who demonstrate bluster and swagger in public, yet show uncertainty which sadly often manifests itself in defensiveness and anger, in private. I have a little sympathy as too often, these people are fed lines that other people think they want to hear. And they are also responsible for their own actions. A lack of dialogue with front line staff and customers will do that to you.

Vulnerability is, I believe, an essential human quality. Without it we are prey to arrogance, over confidence and the kind of chest beating and hooraying that maybe, just maybe, does us more harm than good.

In case you are interested, my disco performance is on June 29th. Watch this space – I Will Survive 😉