Validation

It’s important to recognise good work. We know this and yet we stubbornly persist at not being very good at it. Too often we prefer to draw up totally bland recognition awards like this classic example I observed last year.  At the time, Peter Hros suggested that ‘You could use them all instead of wallpaper in the room where you go every time you feel worthless.’ Ahhh, the room of worthlessness, we’ve all been there eh?

On recognition David Goddin notes that ‘the recognition that people respond most positively to is immediate and authentic. It’s akin to the reflex praise we received as a children when we ate food, took our first steps, etc. At it’s heart is a true appreciation of what it took for the individual to achieve.’ I love the way David has described this and I’m clearly biased, based on this observation of recognition from Jonathan Wilson.

Jonathan and I were with a customer yesterday meeting their new Marketing Director, Sheila. During the conversation Sheila explained to us that when she started work with the company our report on how the company engages with and could improve engagement with its stakeholders was one of the first things she was given to read. ‘Your work continues to inform our decision making’ Sheila told us, and went on to explain how. We had a useful conversation and I look forward to more in the future. Our report is not brand new, but it was the first time Sheila had the opportunity to give us feedback and she chose to do so.

In the next few days you will observe someone doing good work for you and others. It may be a colleague, it may be a friend, someone serving you in a restaurant, it may be a supplier. It would be lovely if you could find just a few seconds to acknowledge that work. No need to nominate someone for an award or get a certificate printed. Simply observe, approach and recognise their contribution. Trust me, as a recent recipient I can tell you it’s a motivating thing when it happens.

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Positively Psyched

Happy Monday y’all. Seeing as how today is not many folks fave day of the week I thought I’d kick things off on some positive notes to help get you in your stride.

MeetMeMe

I recently had a great customer experience courtesy of MeetMeMe. I found out about these unusual business cards after seeing a post on Facebook by Dawn Hrdlica Burke about them. I went to order a pack and they are US shipment only. I dropped them a nice note to say how cool I thought their product was and they kindly agreed to ship me some. Sweeeeeeet!

We’re going one step further and offering five sets of cards as give aways over at our Facebook page. All you have to do is head over there, give us a like and then get ready to be quick off the mark around 2pm on Thursday 19th July to nab yourself a pack of your own MeetMeMe trading cards.

Sukh Pabial

Sukh is on an adventure. A step on that adventurous journey is his Positive Psychology in Application event in London on Friday August 17th. You can find out more about the event here and I’m pleased to let you know that we have two tickets to give away. All you have to do is add a comment to this post asking for a ticket and if you are the first or second person to do so – bingo! I’ll then put you in touch with Sukh and you can take it from there.

John Junson

John is the network cartoonist and designer over at David Zinger’s Employee Engagement Network. He created the design and colours for the network. He created our unique symbol/brand. He designed all the free e-books. He has been involved in this work before it went online over four years ago. His birthday is July 21 and we want to see if we can have the community at 5000 members for his birthday.

Please help. If you have not joined, join today. I’ve been a member for a few years and enjoyed lots of useful learning and sharing, and membership is free.

To join the network, click here.

So there you have it – three positives to kick off your week. Happy Monday!