Social Capital in the Workplace – What’s My Thing?

Last week, as a guest of Mark Catchlove and the good people at Herman Miller, I was within the walls of Windsor Castle. We were working at St George’s House facilitating some fascinating discussions around Social Capital in the Workplace. St George’s House published a report of the consultation which you can download and read from here.

One of the things we talked about was our own social capital in the group. How many people did we know in the group, how did we know them, that kind of thing. We used some very basic data to start drawing maps of our connections, and someone suggested we should also note down our interests. ‘What’s My Thing?’ is how the idea was put forward. So among other things, our conversation over dinner turned to ‘What’s My Thing?’ and we each wrote down something about our interests and talked about it. After dinner we had a tour of St George’s Chapel, parts of which date back to 1240 AD, before heading off to bed.

Although the bed in my room was very comfortable, I didn’t sleep for very long, in part because I was excited to get back to work. I was up and about shortly after 5am, and because everywhere is unlocked, I made my way down to The Vicars’ Hall, the building we were working in. The Hall was built in 1415 and it is rumoured that William Shakespeare visited the building with Queen Elizabeth to see the first production of The Merry Wives of Windsor. You can just about make the building out on the left of this moonlit picture I took.

Vicars' Hall in the Moonlight

Once inside the Hall – I got to thinking about ‘What’s My Thing?’. I looked through all the notes people had made over dinner the previous evening and decided to put everyone’s things onto a large sheet of paper.

What's My Thing

This big picture is what greeted everyone when they came together to restart the conversation. It provoked a real buzz and lots of conversations about who does what. I deliberately left names off the picture, and people began to piece things together based on conversations from the previous evening.

Getting to know one another, beyond how we simply define ourselves at work, is an important part of what makes work better, and I think this group gained a lot of useful insight from each other as a result of this simple exercise. ‘What’s My Thing?’ wasn’t my idea, though I adapted the handwritten notes into the big picture. It was a social, simple, enjoyable way of getting a group talking and I thought I’d share it in case others would like to try it out too.

Grace Under Pressure

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If you hold an egg just so, it’s amazing how much pressure you can exert on it, before it breaks. Switch it any other way, and unless you handle with kid gloves, the egg will break.

This egg is my relationship with you, and if you choose, it’s your relationship with others, and with me too. As you get to know me, you will find out how to exert pressure on me, in such a way that I can usefully absorb it for you.

We all need someone to lean on, so please learn how to exert that force purposefully. Thank you.

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Filling In The Gaps

I’ve been investing a lot lately, in you and me, in us. I’ve made the slightest tweak to my Twitter bio and I’m using it…

Credo. Together beats apart. Flow beats worklife balance. Productive beats busy. Connection gives us meaning, conversations are the bond.

…and my most recent seven word autobiography as guiding lights. Sometimes the lights are dim, sometimes bright. Sometimes the lights take an orderly direction, sometimes they meander.

I grow increasingly certain about uncertainty, increasingly confident about vulnerability, and the vitality of momentum is not lost on me either.

A blank page is both an excitement and a challenge. Will that first mark land in the right place? I was doodling as part of my curation role at the CIPD conference this week, and I made many mistakes. The first one bothered me. Uncertainty and vulnerability. Grrr! The second and subsequent mistakes turned out to be guiding lights on the way to something I was happy to share. As I realised this – things flowed more easily. Momentum.

2014 is nearly upon us. So far there is meaningful, useful, exciting work in the What Goes Around diary for January. February. March. April. And there is room for more, and there will be more.

I am thankful and encouraged. In being encouraged, I hope in some small way I am encouraging too.

Guiding lights. Blank pages. Filling in the gaps.